In the letter we call 1 Peter, there is an expectation that our lives will have challenges. There will be hard days for us. Sometimes they are brought on by circumstances beyond our control. Other times, those hard times are brought on by the intentional choices of others. And, if we’re honest, there are times when we bring difficulty upon ourselves. Regardless of the source of those challenges, it is very common for our hardest times to bring up the biggest questions in our lives. We’re going to talk about those questions briefly today.
I’m the first to admit that compared to many (perhaps most), I have lived an easy life. That is not to say that life has always been easy! I have felt, to borrow from Paul’s words in 2 Corinthians, the reality of living in a “jar of clay.” I have known the reality of being hard-pressed on every side, perplexed, persecuted, and even struck down. (2 Cor. 4:7-10)
In those times, questions are natural and normal.
These are good questions to consider, but they are also frustrating because, in my experience, they are unanswerable. And any attempt to truly answer them is primarily an act of conjecture shaped more by my desire for everything to make sense than a full understanding of what is real. Any given situation is too vast and complex and has too many variables for us to really give a reliable response to these huge questions.
But there is one question that I have found helpful and even answerable to a certain extent. That question is “Where are you, God?” We are assured in Hebrews that God will never leave us. And the fact that circumstances around us, imposed on us, and in us don’t align with God’s heart for the world doesn’t mean that God is not present with us. Sometimes, we need to take the time to look for where God is present rather than focusing on all the places God isn’t.
I remember one of the most difficult times in my life - when I couldn’t answer any of the why, what, and when questions. In those times, if I turned by eyes to the question, “Where are you, God?” I saw God’s presence in the beauty of spring and in the support of friends and in the provision from strangers. I saw God’s presence in the gift of breath and in the release of tears and in the laughter of children. I saw God’s presence through art, music, and masterful literature. I saw God’s presence by being able to wake up each day, in the comfort of love, and through the confirmation of a call.
I couldn’t explain why or what or when or how. But when I was able and willing to look for that which was true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable - what was excellent or praiseworthy - there I was able to see the presence of our good and loving God.
As we walk through this day and these ongoing, challenging days, it is so easy to be overwhelmed by the weight of things. And the number of questions we cannot answer can just add to the burden. So I encourage each of us to take time to ask and dig into this one question we can answer if we have eyes to see. “Where are you, God?” And by God’s strength, may we live in such a way that our love helps others to answer this question, too.
Just a quick reminder of a few things this week:
For now, as you go through this week and whatever it will bring, may you keep your eyes open for where God is showing up through beauty, kindness, care, and love. And may God give you the strength to show up as his presence for others.